Perhaps we guys are so busy trying to make the best impression and say the right things that we sometimes forget to notice her apparent signs of interest. Keep these in mind next time you are out on the social prowl:
She's laughing at you. The secret here is to actually HAVE interesting, funny stories, dreams or aspirations to share. If you are lacking in this department, expect full body dry heaves ….instead of laughs.
She compliments you. (ie: "Nice nostrils!!") A no- brainer. Just think....do you EVER compliment any girl you meet if you are not interested? Most likely you do ….and most likely you do it too much.
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Her belly button is facing you. Psychological studies of favorable body language conclude that she is interested if she is facing you directly. Usually, on the initial approach, this positive form of communication is not apparent. In most cases, she is only turning her head or looking over her shoulder to size you up. But it only takes a minute or two for her to gauge your safety level and her comfort level with you to determine if she should "let you in" to her space. With this, she will gradually turn her belly button towards you in "acceptance" of who you are and what you have to offer.
She primps. When she goes to the ladies room, she comes back looking fresh and "touched up". If she's excusing herself to the restroom, it's doubtful she has a weak bladder. Most likely she's freshening up her makeup and hair... all for you.
She asks you about Mom. "When a woman likes you, she doesn't want to get to only know about you ...she wants to know about your family and friends. These are clues about what her life would be like with you. Your relationship with your family says a lot about you. For your sake, I hope you have a great relationship with your mom.
She is paying close attention to you when you speak. You've captivated her...and she's not whipping out her iphone....instead, she's hanging on your every word. If this is happening, keep up the good work young man!
The conversation lasts longer than 2 Tic Tac mints. Ask any woman desperate to wind down a conversation and she'll tell you she's gotta give blood, donate a kidney or shave her dog – any excuse to end your boring-ass conversation. Naturally, if she's having a great time and doesn't want to see you go, she'll gladly stay beyond 45 minutes or even suggest something like a walk or dinner. She pokes you. If you find her engaging in a little physical contact …..you've made a very good impression on her. If she's attracted to you, she won't hesitate to reach out and let you know. If she reaches for your hand or leans on your shoulder for ANY reason, chances are she likes the thought of your soft and supple lips against hers....unless you blow it with a joke like: "Hey, what do you call a lesbian dinosaur?
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Mark Aguirre
Confidence Specialist
Killer Confidence Coaching
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