Yes....EASILY.
Observe the masses and do the opposite. NOW!
...before you die.
In a city the size of Los Angeles, who could argue that there aren't PLENTY of major opportunities passing you by every single day of every single week?
Well, based on statistics that I have calculated unofficially, those of you who are mentioned in this article could definitely find room for such an arguement...which is why I am writing this especially for you.
As a Confidence/ Life Coach to successful and marriage-oriented men and women over 35, I have heard this terrible excuse a
million times.... and it shocks me to death why we simply allow ourselves to grow older day by day and continue to do nothing about it.We simply prefer to complain and mope. (Excuse me while I pull out my miniature violin and play it while you continue to whine to all of your family and friends..."Woe is me.."
"I just don't know where to meet nice guys/women that I want to date."
My jagged and heartless response: Consider yourself a lazy, unimaginative dork who simply deserves what you've gotten until now.........nothing.
Pretty harsh words, eh?
Listen pal. Maybe a little injection of reality will do you some good. Now sit up straight and pay attention.
The truth of the matter is this: In practically every situation as a coach over the last 4 years, the culprit is quite apparent: IT'S YOU!!.
You just don't want it bad enough. Let's face it...you are simply not WILLING to put the effort in.
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You are simply not willing to drive more than 15-20 minutes from home. "It's too far!" (So, romance and love is not worth the extra effort?)
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You are simply not willing to explore and experience NEW and DIFFERENT places where interesting people hang out. (Ever heard of the LA or OC Weekly?)
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You are simply not willing to go out during the week. "I'm too tired!" (Too tired? Are you kidding me? Shouldn't you be too tired of being alone instead?)
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You are simply not willing to go out and explore life by yourself. (You'd rather drag your unmotivated and single loser friend with you....perfect association dynamic here.)
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You limit yourself to going out on weekends only. (Think about it....you've set in place a full 28% effort (2/7days a week) to get what you really and truly want. Wow, I guess you get out what you put in, right?)
Should I keep going?
This is not rocket science. It is simply sheer, pathetic, self- pity at it's very best combined with a crazy and completely unrealistic hope that love and the exciting connection of romance will simply saunter on up to you and kiss you on the cheek.
Yeah, that'll happen.
Get a life. Get a coach. Get a free coaching session til March 25th.
Mark Aguirre
Confidence Specialist
KILLER CONFIDENCE
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not darkness that frightens us.
