Being an average looking or, shall we say, a butt-ugly Joe or Jane doesn't automatically remove you from the playlist of a fun life. Besides, everybody has room for improvement. It is pretty hard to be considered BUTT UGLY. Sure, men have an advantage in this particular case because they are visual and physically motivated whereas women can be more emotionally and "something other than physically" motivated. Let's face it, how many below average Joe's have you seen with bombshell cuties on their arm? Now, do you ever see the reverse? The point is - who cares? The real problem lies within ourselves and we don't even realize that we are doing it!
So, what's the remedy? Whether you're a guy or a girl, you can make up for your looks by offering what people tend to be drawn to most, but usually spend the least amount of time perfecting: BECOMING INTERESTING. The key to being interesting is simple - all you have to do is CREATE a life of interest.
There it is! The answer you probably didn't expect, right? Did you need a PHD to tell you otherwise?
Remember that dream list that we discussed earlier? You know, the one list of cool ideas and interests that is brewing in your head that keeps getting constantly ignored because all of the finer, more important things that consume your life like the 40 hour work week that you pretty much loathe and your dreadful commute to the suffering hole itself? Hmmm, and how you just can't seem to find the time to do what your gut already knows you would love. And imagine how just regular walks on the beach, a refreshing yoga class, a stimulating salsa class or that great new hiking club could put a well deserved smile on your face and firmly embed a fantastic feeling of accomplishment in your everyday stride. And how you could instantly wow your firends and substitute your current, outdated, lame conversation pieces and gossip with exciting life experiences that keep you young, motivated and worth listening to by those outside of your comfort zone.
Ask yourself: Are you really worth listening to? Are you one of those people who accuses everyone that you meet for being boring? Ahem. Remember this important fact: You attract who you are. With you focusing your whole existence on your current path and severe overuse of your new cable remote, you and you alone, are sabotaging your own level of excitement.
Did you know that the most uncomfortable people are the most successful? Think about that very carefully. Now, with a life of interest in full motion that YOU decided to create (because you decided to get uncomfortable), how hard would it be to tell your stories and your amazing experiences with full passion and excitement? Could this be the instant HOOK to interest another? Instead of watching a great movie, try something new and live your own movie. The HYPE for your new role will do you good. No more responses like: "Same shit, different day" will ever leave your lips again.
Interested in attending one of Mark's Workshops or having him coach you privately? Contact Mark directly at Mark@moshee.net
So, what's the remedy? Whether you're a guy or a girl, you can make up for your looks by offering what people tend to be drawn to most, but usually spend the least amount of time perfecting: BECOMING INTERESTING. The key to being interesting is simple - all you have to do is CREATE a life of interest.
There it is! The answer you probably didn't expect, right? Did you need a PHD to tell you otherwise?
Remember that dream list that we discussed earlier? You know, the one list of cool ideas and interests that is brewing in your head that keeps getting constantly ignored because all of the finer, more important things that consume your life like the 40 hour work week that you pretty much loathe and your dreadful commute to the suffering hole itself? Hmmm, and how you just can't seem to find the time to do what your gut already knows you would love. And imagine how just regular walks on the beach, a refreshing yoga class, a stimulating salsa class or that great new hiking club could put a well deserved smile on your face and firmly embed a fantastic feeling of accomplishment in your everyday stride. And how you could instantly wow your firends and substitute your current, outdated, lame conversation pieces and gossip with exciting life experiences that keep you young, motivated and worth listening to by those outside of your comfort zone.
Ask yourself: Are you really worth listening to? Are you one of those people who accuses everyone that you meet for being boring? Ahem. Remember this important fact: You attract who you are. With you focusing your whole existence on your current path and severe overuse of your new cable remote, you and you alone, are sabotaging your own level of excitement.
Did you know that the most uncomfortable people are the most successful? Think about that very carefully. Now, with a life of interest in full motion that YOU decided to create (because you decided to get uncomfortable), how hard would it be to tell your stories and your amazing experiences with full passion and excitement? Could this be the instant HOOK to interest another? Instead of watching a great movie, try something new and live your own movie. The HYPE for your new role will do you good. No more responses like: "Same shit, different day" will ever leave your lips again.
Interested in attending one of Mark's Workshops or having him coach you privately? Contact Mark directly at Mark@moshee.net
