Are You Needy, Clingy Type?

I know you don't want to be labeled as "needy". Needy=desperate=turn off. Really, it does.

How many times have you met a person who wanted more and more from you...like another date, another phone call, another text message response asap....and all on THEIR TERMS....and all you wanted to say was: "Chill out and relax, dude!"

You see, If you have the wrong mindset from the get go, then it will be obvious to those you interact with and you that you are needy....and trying too hard. Trying too hard is easy to spot.

Think of yourself as a salesperson. The more you push, the more you scare away the client....and you almost always lose the sale, correct?

You can easily do this with people you are attracted to. Men, here is the key to avoiding being needy with women you meet (same goes for the women here, too).

If you are always forcing yourself to meet NEW people every day, then your "pipeline" of potential love interests is always full and flowing. That means, you can always extend an invitation for dates (plural), rather than putting all the pressure on yourself for focusing on ONE date at a time. That way, if one "potential" is not responding quickly enough or is a bit hesistant, there is NO PROBLEM on your part, because you have already extended the invitation to several others and always know that a "backup" is close at hand that WILL respond accordingly.

Bottom line: If you go on a job interview and you "feel" it went well, then you are more likely NOT to pursue another job interview. At least that what most people seem to do. They are convinced in their own mind that they will receive the call for employment....and the anticipation builds.........and builds. Yikes! You have created a false sense of security for yourself. Instead, go on several interviews with various employers and feel great about MANY potentials at once......and make it a game. Got it?